Posted on March 10, 2016
Turning up at someone’s house, unannounced.
Turning up at someone’s house, unannounced, who has told you they don’t want to see you.
What this act does – what is really does, is remind that person of all the other times their boundaries were crossed by you. Their personhood ignored by you. It’s triggering and destructive. It is a bullying act.
I know – it is hard to be estranged from your adult child.
But you can’t force them to forgive you.
To love you.
Don’t do it again.